Who am I?

Sides of me

I am a little, submissive, pet and slave. All of these titles mean different things and different types of dynamics can occur. The first thing that drew me to BDSM was the fact that most people identified with more than one title. I started out as a submissive and later found my little and the rest of my titles.

Submissive: I love serving. Serving Sir turns me on and makes me feel needed and wanted. Sometimes its a struggle because there are days when I DO NOT feel like it, but I think when I do it anyways I feel better. Sometimes it gives me time to focus and clear my mind when I have one goal on my mind: pleasing Sir.

• Willingly gives up control or authority to a Dominant partner.
• Follows the Dominant’s instructions and desires within negotiated boundaries.
• May experience pleasure or fulfillment through acts of submission.
• May engage in activities such as bondage, discipline, and obedience.

Little: I have neglected my little for so long now that I don’t know who she is. I’ve been shamed for being a little. There is nothing sexual about my little. I feel it is a defense mechanism. She comes out when I need protection from the world around me. She is my safe space.

• A person who embraces a childlike persona or mindset within the BDSM dynamic.
• Seeks care, nurturing, and guidance from a Dominant partner.
• May engage in age play, dressing in childlike clothing, or participating in activities associated with childhood.
• It is important to note that age play involving minors is illegal and unethical.

Slave: I am still new to being a slave life but I am enjoying things. I will say there is less room for error. When I am told something I need to get it done. sometimes I do procrastinate before I get it done BUT it is always done before Sir asks about it. I am still learning what being Sir’s slave means and I occasionally need retraining.

• A fully consensual role where a person relinquishes complete control to a Dominant partner.
• Typically involves a high level of power exchange, where the Dominant has significant authority.
• May involve strict protocols, rules, and punishments.
• The slave’s purpose is to serve and please the dominant in various ways.

Pet: I am a puppy. I enjoy something in pet mode that I didn’t think I would. Eating out of my puppy dishes, walking on a leash, barking while he fucks me, whimpering like a lost puppy when I miss Sir or he walks past. The attention whore in me loves being in pet mode. I want all the love and attention.

• A BDSM role that incorporates elements of animal play or pet play.
• The submissive takes on the role of a pet, such as a kitten, puppy, or pony.
• This may involve wearing accessories, behaving like the chosen animal, and engaging in pet-related activities.
• Focuses on the submissive’s desire to be cared for, nurtured, and owned by a Dominant partner.

BDSM TEST RESULTS

 Results from bdsmtest.org

100% Submissive
100% Age player
100% Rope bunny
100% Boy/Girl
96% Voyeur
93% Exhibitionist
88% Masochist
79% Non-monogamist
79% Slave
79% Experimentalist
75% Pet
74% Primal (Prey)
65% Degradee
51% Brat
43% Vanilla

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